Don’t we all have a master plan? A plan for our career, an age we’d like to be married or remarried by, a plan of when and how to raise kids, a plan for the perfect wedding or vacation? A plan for the perfect Christmas card, birthday party, or neighborhood to live in?

I’ve clearly learned that our master plan may have nothing to do with the Master’s plan for our lives.

Our plans feel very similar to a “some assembly required” list of instructions that can drive us crazy. We start out with great intentions and expectations and then end up inevitably missing a part, can’t make sense of the verbiage, or lack the skills to build it at all, much less easily.

I’m in awe of people who can whip out the instructions and build a dollhouse or an easy bake oven from scratch, no biggie. They make it look so simple! That’s, not me.

One of my favorite Maya Angelou quotes is: “You can tell a lot about a person by the way they handle three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.”

To untangle or not, that is the question. I’m not typically much of an untangler. I’d rather someone untangle them for me or just buy new ones. But, I’m learning that wisdom is determining whether it’s worth putting the time and effort in to untangle the lights you already have or to start over with new ones.

I think both options can be wise depending on the circumstances. I’m also finding that if God is at the center, it makes sense to put the work in.

Untangling may make you appreciate the final product more while buying new feels exciting and easier, but can also be scary. With new, you never know what you’re gonna get. Kind of like a box of chocolates. It may be the sweetest thing you’ve ever tasted, but you have to try to know.

It takes endurance and commitment to untangle. It takes tremendous faith and courage to start new. Both are necessary at times, and both are part of the Master’s plan for our lives.

Sitting down with someone to help me untangle the lights sounds a lot more inviting than doing it alone. Find people who will help you. Find people who have marriages, relationships, and mindsets like you want and learn from them. Ask them questions. Read their books.

They will help you discern if it’s wiser to untangle or to start new. So many of our life situations are similar to tangled Christmas lights and sometimes there’s only so much that we can do.

Sometimes, we need to put the work in and sometimes we need to let it go. Sometimes we are missing a crucial part. Sometimes we need to work on communicating our needs better and sometimes we just need to be patient.

It may never be constructed easily, and that’s okay. As long as we are building to the glory of God, He will step in where we can’t. Follow His peace.

Our Master’s Plan will lead us in directions we never thought we’d take through situations we never thought we’d face. Knowing He’s walking alongside us, turns it into an adventure of a lifetime.

We make our own plans, but the Lord decides where we will go. Proverbs 16:9 (CEV)

I’m not much of a builder, but I’m learning. I’m learning not to be afraid to build. I’m also learning that if it all crashes down like Jenga, the Master has a different plan for me.

I’m learning that His plan requires a lot of patience because it has a lot of moving parts. I’m learning that His plan brings us closer to Him and leads us to an eternity with Him. I’m learning that His plan brings purpose and touches others along the path. I’m learning that His plan provides peace and authority even amid the unknown. I’m learning that our Master’s plan will simply amaze us.

I’m learning that His plan is, hands down, better than my plan ever was or ever will be.