I’ve learned that sometimes when we think our problems are other people, what we are actually struggling with is our own sin.
When things get really sad for a long time. Ask God why.
In His loving ways, sometimes He lets it sit longer until we’re actually willing and ready to hear His answer.
Are we jealous? Are we greedy? Are we hurt by something else and displacing it? Are we telling the truth?
No one can take certain things away from you. Who you are. Who you gave birth to. How God made you. How much God loves you.
Are you sad because you feel you’re losing people? Have you done something to hurt them? If so, correct it if possible. If not, let life run it’s course. Let people go and ask God who He has for you.
Are you sad because kids are choosing friends over you? That’s normal. Both ways.
If someone else told me I was jealous, I wouldn’t want to hear it. It would make me angry and defensive. But, when God does, it’s the most loving thing He can do. Because then, I can address, confess, and surrender it. “Lord, take this jealousy. Lord, forgive me. Help me with it.”
I’ve written about how Jesus is the Answer. His answers to our human struggles are given in His Love too. To help us.
Do we need to forgive someone…again? Something we thought we’d already done, but then the sadness takes over. Why?
He will graciously and mercifully share with our hearts when we are ready to hear His answer. “My precious child, this is making you sad.”
Thank you, sweet Jesus, for You and Your answers. When we know Your character, we appreciate your admonishment.